In countless ways. Of course FB wasn't the trend setter- I think for me, it really began with AOL.. the idea of a buddy list and talking with friends started there. Then all the social networking sites came about (at least the ones I was into):
LiveJournal- now it seems like another blogging website, but before it was an online diary really. I had all my friends from school and I would post my oh-so dramatic, end of the world, crazy high school problems.
Myspace- even though we're so over it now, it really was a phenomenon. Posting pictures, leaving comments on people's pages, making your profile customized and cute. It was almost stressful! Really though, this is where online communication took a big step- Myspace allowed me to find old friends from elementary school, class trips to different cities, and even long lost family members. I could look at their pages and know what they were up to- I knew where to reach them if I ever had to. Something that was unheard of before unless I had a personal phone number or e-mail address.
Facebook- really the mother-load of all these sites. FB is the more sophisticated version of myspace I think. It's more intense too- I can still keep in touch with friends and contacts from all over the world, but if I really wanted to, I could find out details about anyones life from a few pictures or wall post.
We all do it- Facebook stalking! This could be considered a downfall of the new types of online communications in our daily lives. We put our information out there so willingly, we sometimes do not know what we're getting ourselves into exactly; we are exposing personal details that should maybe be kept personal. Employers have started looking into people's facebooks to determine what kind of person you are, and if you are the kind of person they want representing their company. Sometimes, they are just looking for inappropriate pictures (ex. all of us FSU students partying and such), but sometimes they discriminate based on personal info and opinions. Bloomberg posted this article that summed it up pretty good.
You have to put it into perspective though- there has to be some bad points with anything good... you just have to learn what to put online and what to keep hidden.
And still, FB took it further still- they incorporated a chatting system in the homepage, where you can instant message your friends who are online at the same time as you. It's convenient and simple. What's next?
I think it's incredible how you can keep in touch with someone like this. One of my best friends is spending the summer in Yellowstone National Park interning there, and she has no phone service. Thankfully though, through AIM I talk to her everyday, and through FB I can see her picture uploads and stay in the loop with all her stories.
I have family that live in different cities, and FB helps me keep in touch with them greatly- I dont get to see my family in Texas, Naples, or Palm Beach as much as I'd like to, but through pictures posted online, we keep each other in the loop. It's great... Similarly, my mother is on FB, and she's constantly finding old friends she knew as far back as elementary school. Just like on Twitter, time is relative- you can find out what someone is doing at one very moment, and the effort to communicate with them becomes so much easier than having to send a mail letter or a long distance phone call we once had to.
I wonder what the next craze will be? I'm still an avid FB user, so for now I hope it isn't going anywhere. I'm gonna go browse through profiles that pop up on my newsfeed now! Until next time..
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